While I was with our students at Bigstuf Camp I had the opportunity to hear Reggie Joiner speak in a session with the pastors and volunteers from each church. I was excited to hear that he was speaking because I had heard him before and really enjoyed the way he communicates and the practical truths he lays out so clearly and simply.
In this session he looked into Luke chapter 15 and helped solidify what I feel should be the priority of the Church. In Luke chapter 15 we read of three parables Jesus told: The Lost Sheep the Lost Coin and the Lost Son. We narrowed our focus on the parable of the lost son (also known as the prodigal son). Before we read this story it is important to note the context in which Jesus is speaking, if we go to the beginning of the chapter we will see that Jesus is talking to “tax collectors and other notorious sinners” (NLT). Note that he was not talking to the church and the religious leaders were angered that Jesus would surround himself with such people. In this story it doesn’t merely show how a father should express forgiveness, or the disadvantages of being a reckless, foolish, squanderer of gifts, but it shows that the priority of Jesus is with the prodigals.
In the story we see three main charaters the prodigal son, the father and the brother. Reggie pointed out that the father’s love provided a way to reach out to a son who had fallen while the brother showed an attitude of judgment that would have driven the brother away from the place he needed to be. That place being a home of forgiveness, restoration, and healing.
The contrasts between the two are a great example of many churches today.
A loving father is PREOCCUPIED WITH WHO IS MISSING
A loving father operates from the CONTEXT OF FORGIVENESS
The Older brother operates from the CONTEXT OF SHAME
For some reason the church has decided that because the generation desires to feel better about being bad that we should make them feel bad about being bad. The example Reggie gave was of a little girl who missed the final soccer goal, losing the playoff game to the championships. As if she didn’t feel bad enough her own mother stood up and began screaming at her from the bleacher, “look what you did, now were not going to the final game!” Honestly, does the little girl need to feel any worse?
Are we as a church shaming those who are lost to prove our point that they are wrong and we are not? Are we adding another burden to the addiction, loss, pain, and confusion of a person without Christ? When we were called to be a light in the darkness it was not to shine light on everyone’s faults and point them out, but to be the place where people are drawn to and being a light guiding others to Christ. Our light is the example of Jesus Christ played displayed in the way we live. It is a light that should never burn out. In the story the loving fathers light never burned out. He kept the lights on and forgiveness open to his son for as long as it took. The older brother did not.
My question is “where are the majorities of our churches today?” Are we older brother churches or loving father churches? What if we created environments where the lost or prodigals know they are welcome, that it was okay for them to come inside our walls? Do the lost know that the church is a place of restoration, forgiveness, and healing?
It is important to note that Jesus did not shame a sinner because of his lifestyle, but often shamed the religious ones who judged the prodigals of society. It is also important to remember that the churches relationship with the outside world creates their definition of the church.
Loving father or Older Brother? What’s your Cadence?